Mark Hunter SPEAKING WITH IMPACT BERLIN MAY 2012

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1 Mark Hunter SPEAKING WITH IMPACT BERLIN MAY 2012 WHERE LEADERS ARE MADE

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3 It takes a Club to Raise a Member It takes a Club Area Division and District to Raise a Great Speaker

4 Winning is Great But you really need to know how to come 2 nd, 3 rd, 4 th Lose Lose Lose Lose Lose Win To raise yourself Don t look outside = Blame Look inside = This is where GREAT SPEAKERS are made

5 From. Message Audience Self

6 A Competitive Speaker needs motivation that is beyond winning From. Winning to Sharing the best I had, and being the best I could

7 Connecting with your audience

8 Its all about... AUTHENTIC RELATIONSHIPS

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10 Self Disclosures Catharsis Defining Objectionable Negative emotions

11 Titles Mission I m Possible Whatcha Got? Let Go Merchants of Hope The Aviators It s not my Knockdown My Alter Ego Unchained Memory Being Jane

12 Lessons from this Journey Message Simple, Short Feedback Active, Precious Feeling Live, Love, Stories

13 Lessons From this Journey Dream Possible Dreams Optimism Be Authentic Define it as possible Set Intermediate Goals Self Talk - Awareness The talk of others True to Self Maximize who you are

14 The Writing Process

15 Ideas?.Where from? Listen Read Watch & Write As a speaker does... Myths Legends Stories From around the World

16 Judging Sheet Writing for Success Selecting an Issue Brainstorming Identifying the Topic Developing Main Ideas Great Opening Great Conclusions Nerves/ Mantra

17 WRITING FOR EFFECTIVENESS GENERAL AND SPECIFIC PURPOSE WRITE TO ACHIEVE IT

18 Purpose for Speaking Words cannot be separated from their Purpose Your Audience influences your Purpose Your Purpose influences your Language Your Language influences your Words

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20 PURPOSE = LANGUAGE AND ITS STRUCTURES LANGUAGE SENTENCE STRUCTURES BODY LANGUAGE TONALITY VOCAL VARIETY INSPIRE ENTERTAIN INFORM PERSUADE MOTIVATE

21 PURPOSE = LANGUAGE AND ITS STRUCTURES LANGUAGE SENTENCE STRUCTURES BODY LANGUAGE TONALITY VOCAL VARIETY ENTERTAIN Flowery Elaborate Light Humorous Varied Complex Creative Descriptive Open Expansive Light Varied Pleasant Extensive Vibrant Flamboyant

22 PURPOSE = LANGUAGE AND ITS STRUCTURES LANGUAGE SENTENCE STRUCTURES BODY LANGUAGE TONALITY VOCAL VARIETY INSPIRE Eloquent Elaborate Head Heart Varied Strong Controlled Sincere Honest Varied Confident Varied Deliberate Enthusiastic ENTERTAIN Flowery Elaborate Light Humorous Varied Complex Creative Descriptive Open Expansive Light and Varied Pleasant Extensive Vibrant Flamboyant INFORM Specific Authoritative Short Logical Layered Precise and controlled Neutral Steady Controlled Uniform Measured PERSUADE Direct Simple Short Specific Urgent Assertive Strong Direct Sincere Forceful Consistent Calculated MOTIVATE Active Direct Bold Short Tight Direct Certain Direct Assertive Exciting Extensive Contrasting

23 Elements that Create a Reaction SURPRISE STAGE CRAFT HUMOUR INTELLECTUAL QUALITY DIFFERENCE

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25 STORY TELLING STORY TITLE MAIN POINTS EMOTIONS JOY ANGER HAPPINESS CONTENTMENT INTEREST SADNESS EXCITEMENT CHALLENGE FEAR LOVE ADMIRATION AMUSEMENT ANTICIPATION WONDER VALUES MESSAGES

26 TO FEEL WHAT AN AUDIENCE WANTS? DIFFERENCE SIGNIFICANCE AUTHENTICITY ENTERTAINMENT TO UNDERSTAND TO BE UNDERSTOOD TO BE RESPECTED

27 PLANNING THOUGHTS BODY LANGUAGE VOCALS COSTUME PROPS DRESS AUDIENCE INVOLVEMENT SINGING

28 The Writing Task The Juxtaposition of Conflicting Emotions Travis

29 DEFINING YOUR SELF AS A SPEAKER ACTIVITY

30 Let Go of Your Definition of Self The Johari Window For me to be the best I could be, some things needed to change

31 In the beginning What I Know and Others Know Xxxxxxxx Ooooo Pppppp Tttttttt What I Did Not Know and Others Did Know Nnn Mmmm Tyyyy Rrrrr Wwwww Dd Ggggg Oooo N GGG Pppp iii UUUU Yyy yyy BBBb Sss HHH jjjjjjjjj What I know and Others Did Not Know Hhhhh jjjjj jjjj Llll Jjjj Nn BnnFggtttt hhhhh What I Did Not Know And What Others Did Not Know What Competing really means The risks in Competing at the highest level The Positive Impact of Multiple Attempts The Evolution of the Successful Speaker

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33 Definition of Self Experienced TM WITTY CLEVER WORDY LOOSE CONFIDENT BORING FRENETIC ANIMATED SHARP CREATIVE DISTINGUISHED LOUD RED QUIET BLUE FEARFUL SMOOTH DISCONNECTED SIMPLE GENUINE INDIVIDUAL FUNNY DISTINCTIVE MAGIC AWESOME CONNECTED AUTHENTIC EXCESSIVE ARTIFICIAL HUMOUROUS FORCED PERFORMER WOW BUILDER ABSORBED DISTANT YELLOW RAPPORT GREEN THERE PROFESSIONAL COMMITTED FOCUSED STOPPED SELFISH OFFENSIVE GROWING RELAXED PREPARED NATURAL INSPIRING ENGAGING MEMORABLE CONNECTING FORGETABLE

34 Definition of Self -Novice WITTY CLEVER WORDY LOOSE CONFIDENT GREAT SHY ANIMATED SHARP CREATIVE DISTINGUISHED LOUD NERVOUS QUIET RESEARCHED FEARFUL SMOOTH PREPARED SIMPLE GENUINE INDIVIDUAL FUNNY DISTINCTIVE MAGIC AWESOME CONNECTED CAUTIOUS ANXIOUS ARTIFICIAL HUMOUROUS FORCED CONVINCING WOW PROGRESSING ABSORBED LIGHT UNPREPARED RAPPORT TRYING HARD SINGLE FOCUS VARIETY COMMITTED FOCUSED SMALL STEPS ACTIVE OFF GROWING RELAXED FAST NATURAL INSPIRING ENGAGING MEMORABLE CONNECTING ENTERTAINING

35 JOHARI WINDOW WHAT I KNOW WHAT I DON T KNOW WHAT MENTOR KNOWS WHAT MENTOR DOESN T KNOW

36 MENTOR S VIEW OF NEW TOASTMASTER WITTY CLEVER WORDY LOOSE CONFIDENT GREAT SHY ANIMATED SHARP CREATIVE DISTINGUISHED LOUD NERVOUS QUIET RESEARCHED FEARFUL SMOOTH PREPARED SIMPLE GENUINE INDIVIDUAL FUNNY DISTINCTIVE MAGIC AWESOME CONNECTED CAUTIOUS ANXIOUS ARTIFICIAL HUMOUROUS FORCED CONVINCING WOW PROGRESSING ABSORBED LIGHT UNPREPARED RAPPORT TRYING HARD SINGLE FOCUS VARIETY COMMITTED FOCUSED SMALL STEPS ACTIVE OFF GROWING RELAXED FAST NATURAL INSPIRING ENGAGING MEMORABLE CONNECTING ENTERTAINING

37 NEW TOASTMASTER S VIEW OF SELF WITTY CLEVER WORDY LOOSE CONFIDENT GREAT SHY ANIMATED SHARP CREATIVE DISTINGUISHED LOUD NERVOUS QUIET RESEARCHED FEARFUL SMOOTH PREPARED SIMPLE GENUINE INDIVIDUAL FUNNY DISTINCTIVE MAGIC AWESOME CONNECTED CAUTIOUS ANXIOUS ARTIFICIAL HUMOUROUS FORCED CONVINCING WOW PROGRESSING ABSORBED LIGHT UNPREPARED RAPPORT TRYING HARD SINGLE FOCUS VARIETY COMMITTED FOCUSED SMALL STEPS ACTIVE OFF GROWING RELAXED FAST NATURAL INSPIRING ENGAGING MEMORABLE CONNECTING ENTERTAINING

38 JOHARI WINDOW WHAT I KNOW WHAT I DON T KNOW WHAT MENTOR KNOWS SHY PREPARED PROGRESSING CAUTIOUS ACTIVE WORDY CREATIVE QUIET HUMOUROUS CONNECTING WHAT MENTOR DOESN T KNOW NERVOUS CONVINCING FORCED FEARFUL TRYING HARD A THIRD PERSON S VIEW

39 Q&A

40 THE SATIR MODES

41 SATIR ADD DRAMA DEEP ATTENTION C A T E G O R I E S CHANGE AT UNCONSIOUS LEVEL CREATES PREDICTABLE STATES FOR THE AUDIENCE

42 I M OK!

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44 EMOTIONS ARE ALMOST ENTIRELY CARRIED BY BODY LANGUAGE

45 MOST POWERFUL PART OF BODY LANGUAGE IS TONE

46 THE FIVE CATEGORIES Placater Blamer Computer Leveller Distracter

47 Q&A

48 COMMIT TO EACH OTHER to become A GREAT SPEAKER A U T H E N T I C