Blunder Big: ways to blow your. 31/2 career and watch it go up in smoke. Dr. Dave Fleming. Tuesday, December 18, 12

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Blunder Big: ways to blow your 31/2 career and watch it go up in smoke Dr. Dave Fleming

The Big Three

The Big Three How much...

The Big Three How much... Money

The Big Three How much... Money Time

The Big Three How much... Money Time Energy

The Big Why?

The Big Why? Why are we trying so hard?

The Big Why? Why are we trying so hard? We are temporary

The Big Why? Why are we trying so hard? We are temporary We are really not that important

The Big Why? Why are we trying so hard? We are temporary We are really not that important Catastrophe is likely

Ah, Failure

So... why not blunder big? I mean in light of the long term prognosis, why not just screw up royally?

How are you feeling?

Ah, Failure

When framed as an ultimate choice, few of us would choose failure. But, when framed as tiny actions that creep into our every day work, many people regularly choose it.

Big Blunder One: Do all you can to avoid paying attention to pretty much everything (but yourself)

Ah, Failure

The woes of not paying attention

The woes of not attending well

The woes of not attending well Money

The woes of not attending well Money Time

The woes of not attending well Money Time Energy

Ah, Failure

Be driven by fear or other negative emotions

Be driven by fear or other negative emotions React, a lot (develop triggers)

Be driven by fear or other negative emotions React, a lot (develop triggers) Don t listen to anyone

Big Blunder Two: Be arrogant and a know it all

Ah, Failure

Do your best two combine:

Do your best two combine: Over or under-inflated focus on self

Do your best two combine: Over or under-inflated focus on self Rigidity

Ah, Failure

Do your best two combine:

Do your best two combine: Over or under-inflated focus on self

Do your best two combine: Over or under-inflated focus on self Rigidity

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity. Albert Einstein

Most people stop looking when they find the proverbial needle in the haystack. I would continue looking to see if there were other needles. Albert Einstein

Ah, Failure

Successful People

Successful People Flexible

Successful People Flexible Resilient

Successful People Flexible Resilient Approachable

Big Blunder Three: Shun people

People are such a freaking pain in the butt

Ah, Failure

Innovation, which is stupid, requires collective energy and relational capital

Innovation, which is stupid, requires collective energy and relational capital The best leaders listen

Innovation, which is stupid, requires collective energy and relational capital The best leaders listen The best leaders invite dissent

Innovation, which is stupid, requires collective energy and relational capital The best leaders listen The best leaders invite dissent The best leaders value process

Big Blunder 31/2:1 In all things, be unhappy and by all means don t enjoy life

Do not take care of yourself Do ignore important people in your life Do nothing to renew your energy and passion

Blunder Big: 31/2 ways to blow your career and watch it go up in smoke Dr. Dave Fleming