PERSONAL SERVANT LEADERSHIP POLARITY SCALE

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How would you assess yourself as a servant leader? The questions below will help you identify your strengths and weaknesses. It will not only reveal some of the reasons you are having success as a leader, but it will also highlight the areas that need more attention. Circle the number that most accurately pinpoints your behavior as a leader. HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS LISTENING PERSONAL SERVANT LEADERSHIP POLARITY SCALE 1. I listen to understand. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I listen to respond. 2. I reflect on what s being said and its meaning. 3. I seek to understand the will of the group. 4. Leadership is largely a matter of paying attention. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I automatically dismiss contrary views as invalid. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I structure things in a way that limits people s access to me. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Leadership is largely a matter of standing alone. EMPATHY 5. I try to see things through the eyes of others. 6. Even if I have to say, No I don t reject the person. 7. Leaders strive to help others reach their dreams. 8. I know how to express empathy to others. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I make decisions without considering the needs of the employees. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 If people disagree with me, I tend to see them as threats. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Leaders have to remind people of the consequences of failure. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I feel awkward talking to people about how things impact them emotionally. NURTURING THE SPIRIT 9. I care about team members as people. 10. Keeping healthy relationships is a priority to me. 11. I make it easy for people to bring their spirit to work. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I don t really know much about team members outside of work. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 If people don t accept me as I am, that s their problem not mine. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Some jobs can be draining, but they do get a paycheck for it. 12. Leadership takes love. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Leaders make tough decisions and people shouldn t take it personally. 1

BUILDING COMMUNITY 13. I believe in the importance of team work even when some tasks are individual ones. 14. I will help someone without expecting them to return the favor. 15. I participate in organizational social events. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I focus on getting my work done not the way the team is working together. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 If I help someone, I feel like they owe me one. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I won t do things with colleagues outside of work if I don t have to. 16. I take pride in being trustworthy 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I expect others to trust my word regardless of my record. 17. I help my team find meaning in work. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 The end product tends to outweigh everything else to me. GROWTH OF PEOPLE 18. I provide people under me with opportunities to develop their skills. 19. I congratulate people on developing new skills. 20. I can identify specific innovations my team has implemented in the last year. 21. I believe that all the people on the team can grow. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 My main concern is that they can do the job right now. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I rarely acknowledge the success of others. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 My main concern is maintaining production. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I have no choice but to live with some mediocre team members. HEALING 22. I am aware of my own quest to be whole as a person. 23. I am sensitive to the stress and tension that my colleagues feel. 24. My co-workers and I can move forward after a disruption or dispute. 25. I am mindful of the impact of my words. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I don t think about my own emotional health very often. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Worrying about how others feel isn t my problem. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 There are things from the past that still anger me. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I see it as a weakness when people need affirmation. Healthy Relationships Score (Items 1-25) 2

LEADING CHANGE AWARENESS 26. I am open about my strengths and weaknesses. 27. I am aware of how my reaction to things impacts others. 28. I am intentional about taking time for personal reflection. 29. I am aware of what motivates the people around me. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I don t really talk about my own performance with others. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I tend to react without thinking of the ramifications. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I am too busy for personal reflection. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I often forget to consider what motivates others. FORESIGHT 30. I understand how the past connects to the future. 31. My presuppositions usually turnout to be dependable. 32. I am effective at keeping my team from getting blindsided by the unexpected. 33. I often understand the significanceof events before others do. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I make short term decisions not ones based on long-term goals. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 My assumptions are often faulty. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I fail to see things coming that I should have. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I often don t understand the significance of something until it s too late. CONCEPTUALIZATION 34. I have given my team a clear vision of where we are going. 35. I reward people for thinking outside the box. 36. I keep my team updated on new developments. 37. I often remind people of the difference they are making. 38. I inspire belief in the future about the future. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I know where we are going but I don t think it s clear to the others. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I tend to say We ve always done it this way. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 People on my team sometimes say they don t know what s going on. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Sharing and interpreting vision often falls through the cracks. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I am pessimistic about the future. 3

PERSUASION 39. I build relationships with the people I lead. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I rely on my position to direct people. 40. I show respect for opinions of others. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I expect people to follow me because I am the leader. 41. I allow people to question processes. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I get irritated if people ask too many questions. 42. I share the reasoning behind my decisions. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I make decisions with little input from others. CALLING 43. I see my work as a calling. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I just check the box and move on. 44. I feel motivated to go the extra mile. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I resent being asked to go the extra mile. 45. I am proud of my department and my organization. 46. I know how my role contributes to the mission of my organization. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I do not feel emotionally attached to my work. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 My work often seems pointless. STEWARDSHIP 47. I feel a sense of ownership in the organization. 48. Continuous improvement is a priority to me. 49. Serving others really matters to me. 50. I believe that leadership carries a lot of debts to the future. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I feel like I m expected to just do what I am told. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I feel no obligation beyond doing my job. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I have to look out for my own interests first. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 I ve earned the right to lead. Leading Change Score (Items 26-50) SCORING Healthy Relationships Score (Items 1-25) Leading Change Score (Items 26-50) GRAND TOTAL SCORE (Items 1-50) 4

SCORE INTERPRETATION: The Score Interpretation is a measure of how you see yourself as a servant leader. It is meant to help you identify the areas where you are strong, where you are weak, and where you tend to caught in the middle. Keep in mind that others may see you in a different way, so it may be useful to ask some others to give their opinions. (But if you ask them, don t be defensive if they critique you more harshly than you think is warranted!) 50: You see yourself as a perfect example of a servant leader. Either you are a long lost relative of Robert Greenleaf, who coined the term Servant Leader, or you may not have a realistic view of how you are actually behaving. 51-100: You see yourself as an exceptional servant leader. You could be writing books on the topic. Cultivate genuine humility and self-awareness in order to keep growing as a leader, and make it a point to pass servant leader principles on to the next generation. 101-200: You are functioning as a healthy servant leader and you can become even more effective as you intentionally focus on maintaining your strengths and work on improving your weaker areas. Continue to see every situation as an opportunity to put servant leadership into action. Strive to keep the focus on how you can enlarge the lives of others, and you will discover that your life continues to be enlarged in the process. 201-300: You are doing some good things as a servant leader, but you also have some areas that are undermining your impact. Either you are straddling the fence so much that you and others are not sure what kind of leader you really are, or while you may be strong in some areas, you also have glaring weaknesses. Other leaders around you will be more inspired to follow you as they see that you are developing more consistency. Overtly declaring your commitment to being a servant leader and striving for continuous improvement could pay great dividends. 301-400: You may be giving lip service to being a servant leader, but the reality is the principles that characterize servant leadership are being routinely violated. It is important to take responsibility for your own actions. It s too easy to convince yourself that you would be different if only the situation were different. You can become a much more effective leader by developing more self-awareness, minimizing fatal flaws, declaring your intentions to improve to the people around you, and asking them to help you improve. 401-500: You may be your own worst critic. If this is a realistic assessment of how you see yourself, your negative self-perception is contributing to your ineffectiveness as a leader and frustrating others around you. Take time to reconnect with your own core values and begin to put them into practice not only with the way you face each situation, but with the way you interact with those around you. Identify some role models and begin to emulate their attitudes, words, and actions. Be persistent until these ways become your own ways. 5