Blunder Big: ways to blow your. 31/2 career and watch it go up in smoke. Dr. Dave Fleming. Tuesday, December 18, 12

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1 Blunder Big: ways to blow your 31/2 career and watch it go up in smoke Dr. Dave Fleming

2 The Big Three

3 The Big Three How much...

4 The Big Three How much... Money

5 The Big Three How much... Money Time

6 The Big Three How much... Money Time Energy

7 The Big Why?

8 The Big Why? Why are we trying so hard?

9 The Big Why? Why are we trying so hard? We are temporary

10 The Big Why? Why are we trying so hard? We are temporary We are really not that important

11 The Big Why? Why are we trying so hard? We are temporary We are really not that important Catastrophe is likely

12 Ah, Failure

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14 So... why not blunder big? I mean in light of the long term prognosis, why not just screw up royally?

15 How are you feeling?

16 Ah, Failure

17 When framed as an ultimate choice, few of us would choose failure. But, when framed as tiny actions that creep into our every day work, many people regularly choose it.

18 Big Blunder One: Do all you can to avoid paying attention to pretty much everything (but yourself)

19 Ah, Failure

20 The woes of not paying attention

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22 The woes of not attending well

23 The woes of not attending well Money

24 The woes of not attending well Money Time

25 The woes of not attending well Money Time Energy

26 Ah, Failure

27 Be driven by fear or other negative emotions

28 Be driven by fear or other negative emotions React, a lot (develop triggers)

29 Be driven by fear or other negative emotions React, a lot (develop triggers) Don t listen to anyone

30 Big Blunder Two: Be arrogant and a know it all

31 Ah, Failure

32 Do your best two combine:

33 Do your best two combine: Over or under-inflated focus on self

34 Do your best two combine: Over or under-inflated focus on self Rigidity

35 Ah, Failure

36 Do your best two combine:

37 Do your best two combine: Over or under-inflated focus on self

38 Do your best two combine: Over or under-inflated focus on self Rigidity

39 The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity. Albert Einstein

40 Most people stop looking when they find the proverbial needle in the haystack. I would continue looking to see if there were other needles. Albert Einstein

41 Ah, Failure

42 Successful People

43 Successful People Flexible

44 Successful People Flexible Resilient

45 Successful People Flexible Resilient Approachable

46 Big Blunder Three: Shun people

47 People are such a freaking pain in the butt

48 Ah, Failure

49 Innovation, which is stupid, requires collective energy and relational capital

50 Innovation, which is stupid, requires collective energy and relational capital The best leaders listen

51 Innovation, which is stupid, requires collective energy and relational capital The best leaders listen The best leaders invite dissent

52 Innovation, which is stupid, requires collective energy and relational capital The best leaders listen The best leaders invite dissent The best leaders value process

53 Big Blunder 31/2:1 In all things, be unhappy and by all means don t enjoy life

54 Do not take care of yourself Do ignore important people in your life Do nothing to renew your energy and passion

55 Blunder Big: 31/2 ways to blow your career and watch it go up in smoke Dr. Dave Fleming